It sounds like you must have read a lot of my other work, if you came to the conclusion that a lot of guys treat me like an "easy lay," so thank you for reading!

And as for the old trope that "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free" -- which seems to be what you're referencing here -- like all old tropes, there's a kernel of truth to it.

But this guy is so hot (Krav Maga body) and smart (the thoughtful emails keep coming) that I've been sliding all over my chair ever since he first contacted me. So if I do sleep with him, that's why. That said, what about this piece made you believe it was a forgone conclusion that I was going to sleep with him? "Sexy" doesn't automatically mean falling into bed with someone.

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